Why happy cards are good
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Table of Contents
- Overview
- What is a happy card?
- How do I choose the right happy card?
- What should I write in the card?
- What about giving someone a gift as well as the card?
- Should I send the card by post?
- The short answer?
Overview
Happy cards are good because they add a little joy to our lives, which is something we all need. The best sort of happy card is one that makes you smile every time you see it, and that lasts for years.
What is a happy card?
I’d say that it’s a card that makes you feel good. It could be a silly joke card, or it could be a card with some genuine kind words on it.
A lot of people think of cards as being something that you give to someone for their birthday or similar, but the best sort is one that you give just because you want to make someone feel good. I think the best ones are given for no particular reason.
How do I choose the right happy card?
There are two obvious approaches here:
- Be careful and select a card specifically for that person.
- Just buy whatever takes your fancy.
Most people would say the first approach is better, but I wouldn’t. That’s because most people don’t really know what they want or like; they just leave it up to someone else to decide. So just make sure you pick something that makes you feel good, and then hope for the best!
What should I write in the card?
Well, if it’s a funny card then all you need to do is sign it, but if it’s something more meaningful then think about how much space there is; if there isn’t much then just say something simple like this:
- I hope this helps you feel happier.
- You’re a lovely person and I want you to feel better.
- I hope this makes your day a little brighter.
If there’s more space then perhaps say something like ‘I think you’re lovely’ and explain why you think so, perhaps with an example of when they did something nice for you. Or perhaps add some details about why seeing them makes your day better somehow.
What about giving someone a gift as well as the card?
This depends on how well you know them; if it’s someone who means a lot to you then yes, otherwise probably not. If the latter then perhaps just suggest doing something together like going for coffee or taking them out somewhere nice.
If it’s someone close, then maybe do something very personal like making them something yourself. It doesn’t need to be anything amazing – maybe cook them dinner or write them a poem (and if either of these make sure they’re really terrible!). Or maybe take them out for dinner at their favourite restaurant.
Should I send the card by post?
No! Just put it in their hand; this will make more of an impact and will mean so much more than sending it by post.
The short answer?
The main thing here is that whatever gesture you make doesn’t have to be perfect – as long as your intentions are kind and genuine it’ll work out fine!
Dan
LinkedIn profileAfter 25+ years juggling IT and management, Dan realized that many people (including friends, family, and coworkers) were grappling with anxiety and stress brought on by modern life. Determined to offer some comic relief, he founded Mr. Inappropriate, an online store for wonderfully rude and funny adult gifts and cards. Through weekly true stories, naughty product lines, and genuine one-on-one connections with customers, Dan’s mission is to help people safely push social boundaries, share a good laugh, and discover that being a bit “inappropriate” can be surprisingly therapeutic. A proud Yorkshire resident, Dan remains steadfast in his belief that humour is one of the best ways to escape the pressures of everyday life, and that a well-timed, mischievous gift can often o more good than any pill.
