Summary: The best kind of anniversary card or gift is one which helps to create a moment where you can both have fun and connect. Something that makes you both smile and reminds you of what is important, which is simply to enjoy being with each other.
It’s quite hard to choose something that will have the right effect, mainly because it’s difficult to know what sort of thing will work. I think the best way to figure this out is to think about how you want them to feel when they receive it. Do you want them to feel delighted, special, loved, or just a bit silly? Or maybe a combination of those?
I think for most couples it’s about feeling loved and enjoying a moment together. Whether your partner would like something silly or naughty, or something more gentle and loving, they probably just want to feel noticed and appreciated.
The best way to achieve this is something that gives you a moment where you can both connect, which could be achieved by giving them a card or gift that makes them smile.
I know there are lots of options here on the Mr. Inappropriate website, but if you don’t know what sort of thing they would like it’s probably best to go for something fairly mild. That way there’s no risk that they’ll be offended.
You could also try talking about it with them before ordering anything; maybe just ask them what sort of thing they’d like and whether they’d prefer something silly or naughty.
