Overview
If you want to buy a rude birthday gift for your lover, and you are not sure what, the most important thing to consider is how she will take it. Is she likely to be offended or not? This depends on her personality and your relationship with her. If in doubt, have a conversation with her about it.
Summary
As always the most important thing to consider is whether or not she is likely to be offended or whether she’ll see the funny side of it. In some cases this is very easy to work out but in others it can be quite difficult. Some people are naturally sensitive and easily offended while others are more open-minded.
On top of that, the nature of your relationship makes a big difference too. For example if you’ve only just met, she will probably have different expectations from if you have been together for years.
If you’re not sure, just talk about it. You could ask her directly or make a comment that would prompt her to give an answer without realising it.
What sort of gift should I get her?
This completely depends on what sort of person she is and what kind of relationship you have with her; what sort of things do you joke about? If you both enjoy talking about sex then a sexy gift would probably be appropriate, but if not then something else might be better.
We have some really good articles about choosing gifts for your girlfriend or wife which will help a lot.
